The Man You Always Wanted Is The One You Already Have

Have you ever found yourself daydreaming about finding the perfect man? Maybe you've watched romantic movies or read romance novels, imagining a passionate and ideal partner who sweeps you off your feet. The truth is, though, that sometimes we overlook the man who is right in front of us - the one we already have.

In today's fast-paced and highly connected world, it's easy to get caught up in the search for perfection. We might become obsessed with finding someone who meets all our expectations, regardless of whether those expectations are realistic or not. But what if I told you that the man standing beside you right now could actually be the one you've always wanted?

Appreciating What You Have

One of the biggest mistakes we make in relationships is taking our partners for granted. We fail to appreciate their unique qualities, and instead, focus on what they lack or our own unfulfilled desires. It's important to step back and truly look at the person we are with - the person who has chosen to be by our side.

The Man You Always Wanted Is the One You Already Have

by Paula Friedrichsen(Kindle Edition)

4.5 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	710 KB
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Think about all the wonderful moments you've shared together - the laughter, the support, the unconditional love. These are the qualities that make a relationship truly strong and fulfilling. By shifting your perspective and focusing on what you already have, you might discover that your partner possesses many of the qualities you've always longed for.

The Myth of Perfection

It's time to debunk the myth of the perfect man. The truth is, no one is perfect, and searching for someone who meets every criterion on your checklist is unrealistic. Every partner comes with their strengths and weaknesses, and it's up to us to embrace and appreciate them as a whole.

When we constantly chase after an unattainable idea, we risk missing out on the opportunity to develop a deep and meaningful connection with the person we are already committed to. By accepting the imperfections and quirks of your current partner, you might find that those very traits make him the perfect man for you.

Investing in Your Relationship

Relationships require effort and investment, regardless of who you are with. Instead of pining for an imagined ideal, put your energy into nourishing the bond you already have. Explore new experiences together, communicate openly, and continuously work on strengthening the connection.

By investing in your relationship, you will not only deepen your love but also grow individually. True growth comes from facing challenges and working through them together. You might be surprised to discover that the man you already have will go above and beyond to support and uplift you throughout your journey.

Embracing Imperfections

Perfection is overrated. Embracing imperfections is what truly makes a relationship strong and enduring. As human beings, we all have flaws, and it's these flaws that make us unique and lovable.

It's time to shift your focus from what is lacking to what is present. Embrace your partner's imperfections and understand that they are part of what makes him the man you always wanted. By accepting him as he is, you create a safe space for both of you to be your authentic selves and build a love that is real and lasting.

So, the next time you find yourself longing for the perfect man, take a moment to appreciate the one you already have. Invest in your relationship, embrace his imperfections, and cherish the moments you share together. The man you always wanted might just be the one who has been by your side all along.

Remember, true love is found in the imperfections and the journey you embark on together. Don't let society's idea of perfection cloud your vision. Open your heart and see the incredible man who is right in front of you - the one you already have.

The Man You Always Wanted Is the One You Already Have

by Paula Friedrichsen(Kindle Edition)

4.5 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	710 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	242 pages

FREE

Hubba, Hubba!

Check Out Your Hubby

He’s predictable, proverbial, and prone to leaving his dirty clothes in a pile beside the laundry basket. He’s the big lug lying next to you every night–and believe it or not, he is your Prince Charming!

But what happens when a man other than your husband begins looking and sounding more appealing?

Transform your marriage with the realization that the man you always wanted is the one you already have. Striking biblical insights, combined with Paula Friedrichsen ’s candid revelations about the inappropriate relationship that nearly destroyed her marriage, will help you see that no man compares to the one you already have.

Discover how to:

- embrace the differences between you and your spouse,

- revel in the freedom of forgiveness, and

- draw near to the only Source of lasting fulfillment.

Story Behind the Book

“Twelve years ago, I became romantically, though thankfully not sexually, involved with my then-pastor. This resulted in the church’s devastation and a great deal of harm to both of our marriages. But God used the difficult lessons I learned during that arduous time to reshape my thinking about marriage and to plainly show me that the man I always wanted was the one I already had. By using my own story of failure and forgiveness as a backdrop, this book illustrates how our heart’s desire is often found no further then the big lug lying next to us in bed each night!” –Paula Friedrichsen